The lifeless bodies of a mother, Bongeka Buso, and her three children were discovered at their Butterworth residence on Sunday, 6 August 2023.
Bongeka Buso: Butterworth mom’s familicide was motivated by poverty
The horrific discovery has cast a sombre cloud over the area, raising questions about the deep-seated issues that might have driven such a desperate act.
As reported by Daily Maverick, the chilling scene was unravelled when a debt collector arrived at the home seeking loan repayment.
Instead, they were met with a devastating sight that no one could have anticipated.
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The bodies of Bongeka Buso (38), her two young children, Orabile (8) and Oratile (5), and her teenage daughter, Anathi, lay motionless within the family’s residence.
Investigations into the incident reveal a tragic narrative of desperation and financial turmoil. Bongeka Buso, who was known as a quiet and introverted member of the community, is believed to have mixed rat poison with the last available food in the house, poisoning her younger children.
The teenage daughter, Anathi, tragically succumbed to a fatal stab wound in the throat, suggesting a harrowing struggle had unfolded.
The news of this tragic event has left neighbours and community members grappling with a mixture of shock, sorrow, and disbelief.
The harrowing details surrounding the incident have led to a collective outpouring of grief and concern for the underlying issues that may have contributed to such a devastating outcome.
Close family members indicated that Buso was facing significant financial challenges, struggling to meet debts and provide for her family’s basic needs.
Reports suggest that the family had been enduring weeks of hardship, including bouts of starvation.
While no single factor can fully explain the profound tragedy, the strains of poverty and debt appear to have played a significant role.
In a suicide note reportedly found at the scene, Bongeka Buso expressed feeling overwhelmed by her burdens. This poignant message underscores the critical need for support and resources for individuals facing financial difficulties and mental health challenges.
As the community grapples with the aftermath, it serves as a stark reminder of the importance of open dialogue, accessible mental health services, and a safety net for those in need.
Provincial police commissioner Lieutenant-General Nomthetheleli Mene addressed the distressing incident, highlighting the need for comprehensive measures to address socioeconomic challenges that can exacerbate mental health vulnerabilities.
“As we commemorate Women’s Month, I urge women to raise their voices and speak out. It is crucial to address concerns promptly rather than waiting until they become more difficult to resolve,” Mene said.
In South Africa, there are many resourceful organisations that are ready to assist you and your loved one in dealing with suicidal triggers. The South African Depression and Anxiety Group (SADAG) is the country’s largest mental health advocacy group, and their 24-hour hotline is free to use if you or a loved one needs help. You can reach them on 0800 456 789 (24 hours a day), SMS 31393, or visit their website for more info and help.
